The risks that keep us growing


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Last few issues, I have been writing about the call to change, and about the difference between the urge to escape discomfort and the quieter, harder kind of freedom that comes from staying present long enough with our pain to choose differently. These past few days, I've been thinking about what comes next, because once we begin to understand freedom as something other than escape, we eventually meet the question of risk.

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As you know, I think of healing as learning, and learning requires risk. The risk of reactivating an old injury when you move a certain way, of saying something more honestly, of trying something that feels unfamiliar, of making a mistake or failing, or of staying with a sensation long enough to discover that it has an entirely different meaning than we thought.

There is always a moment in these experiences where something in us hesitates. The body may tighten, the breath may stop or become shallow, the mind start negotiating, and before we even know what happened, we find ourselves moving back toward the familiar, the controlled, the predictable, the version of life that feels safer because it asks less of us.

Don't get me wrong, sometimes this is necessary. Sometimes stepping back and staying in the zone of comfort is the intelligent thing. Sometimes the body is right to say that it is too much, too soon, too fast. But that is also a way that life can become very small.

We begin to avoid not only what is dangerous, but what is unfamiliar. We organize ourselves around the absence of disturbance. We mistake control for safety, and we may not notice how much of our aliveness disappears with it.

This is what happens when, for example, instead of leaning on that ankle you once sprained, you develop awkward balance patterns that end up hurting your shoulder, or when you keep repeating the same relationships patterns because you are scared of failing at something new. Little by little, we erode our own freedom of movement.

Maybe this is where risk becomes part of resilience, not because we force ourselves past our limit, but because the brain and body need small encounters with the unknown in order to update their maps of what is possible. First, establish a safe baseline, then start with small experiments, change small things, in other words, move slowly, and you will see how the possibilities open up to you, physically and mentally.


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From a brain perspective, learning requires information. If everything is completely predictable, there is very little for the brain to update. If the situation is too overwhelming, the system shifts toward protection and has less access to curiosity, flexibility, and fine perception.

This is one of the ideas behind the challenge point framework in motor learning, which proposes that learning depends on the relationship between the difficulty of a task, the skill of the person, and the amount of useful information available in the experience. A task that is too easy may not create much learning, while a task that is too difficult may exceed the person’s ability to use the information well. The learning seems to happen in that precise space where the challenge is real, but still workable.

Stress research points in a similar direction. Acute, manageable activation can support attention and adaptation, but chronic or overwhelming stress changes the conditions in which the brain and body process information, often biasing perception toward threat and narrowing the range of available responses.

Motor learning research also reminds us that learning is not only repetition. It involves adaptation, calibration, prediction, feedback, and the gradual refinement of how the brain organizes movement in relation to the world.

So perhaps the question is not whether we should take risks, but whether we can begin to distinguish between the risks that overwhelm us and the small, living risks that help us grow.

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This is a small taste of what’s possible when you explore your body and brain with curiosity. If you want to carry vitality across all the areas of your life and learn this new way of being, join me in the Embodied Vitality Program, a 3-month journey designed to help you release pain, calm anxiety, and reclaim your natural vitality.

PS: You got this!

Warmly,

Joana

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